Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Something worth pondering for.

Hi guys. I've got a mail from a person that i respect since long ago and i want to share it with you readers here. It might be a long one, but whenever you feel like giving up or your hope is gone, read on and you'll feel like a whole person again. Maybe some of you had read it before but this is something worth pondering for.

The 5 rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.

No one can go back and make a brand new start.
Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.
God didn't promise days without pain,
Laughter without sorrow,
Sun without rain.
But He promised strength for the day,
Comfort for the tears,
And light for the way.
Dissapointments are like road humps,
They slow you down a bit but you enjoy the smooth road afterwards.
Don't stay on the humps too long,
Move on.

When you feel down because you didn't get what you want,
Just sit tight and be happy,
Because God is thinking of something better to give you.
When something happens to you,
Good or bad, consider what it means.
There's a purpose to life's events,
to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.
You can't make someone love you,
All you can do is be someone who can be loved,
The rest is up to the person to realize your worth.

The measure of love is when you love without measure.
In life there are rare chances that you'll meet the person you love and loves you in return.
So once you have it don't ever let go,
The chance might never come your way again.
It's better to lose your pride to the one you love,
Than to lose the one you love because of pride.
We spend too much time looking for the right person to love,
Or finding fault with those we already love,
When instead we should be perfecting the love we give.

When you truly care for someone,
You don't look for faults,
You don't look for answers,
You don't look for mistakes.
Instead, you fight the mistakes,
Accept the faults,
And you overlook the excuses.
You will never find one who can take his place.
Friendship is like wine,
It gets better as it grows older.

Make sense right? So whatever that is happening in your life, something that you love, people around you that you care for, appreciate them while you can. Because lighting does not strike the same place twice. You don't wanna end up regretting like me, who has been a fool of happiness instead of full of happiness merely because of someone who is definitely not worth fighting for. Hold on while you can before they leave the grasp of your fingers. =)

To any friends that is going through break ups now, no worries. Because in retrospect, breaking up is never easy but as you look inwards and examine your reasons, you do learn a lot more about yourself in the process. At least you've been blessed. Be glad.


Anyway, i just wanna say that Avatar is one great movie of the year! Love the graphics. Love those glow in dark plants. If only i could live in that world and ride my own Toruk Macta! =P

I SEE YOU! hah!

And oh by the way for Pete's sake, to all facebook-ers in the world, stop hitting me with pokemons and god damn pillows because i don't give two shits if i lose to you in two freaking days!

It's better to lose your pride to the one you love
Than to lose the one you love because of pride.


Liaun said...

well written, really make sense

Sophia Lai said...

yup.. =)